May 11, 2010
Tweet Kansas City star columnist Jeneé Osterheldt says she’s sick and tired of being sick and tired about the dismal state of dating for African-American women. “We are not sad, pathetic, desperate women. Yet these stories paint us that way. Stop talking down to me and the women I know. We don’t need to be ...
April 18, 2010
Tweet The male-female ratio is causing social havoc and is responsible for how you dress, how you act, what car you drive, and even, how you view yourself, according to Tim Harford, a British economist and author of a book called “The Logic of Life”. The Economist shines a light on what black women — ...
April 13, 2010
Tweet As a female, it’s normal for you to wonder WTH is going on in his head. You’ve met this new guy and he’s yet to call, doesn’t seem to take visual hints, or read expressions.If it weren’t for your openness and bold declarations of what could happen, he’d probably still be sitting over in ...
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March 25, 2010
Tweet I know a girl that loves to have a good time, but every now and then she goes a little overboard. The next day she basically looks innocent as an angel.she routinely doesn’t remember (so she claims) or acts like someone “must’ve put something in my drink” the night before, but me wonders: Is ...
February 25, 2010
Tweet If I changed the lyrics to one of my favorite songs, it’d go: “Dish water blonde, tall and foine”. Of course, blonde is optional, but the point remains: Having a little meat on the bones never hurt nobody. Of courst the backlash against the skinny little things that model women’s clothes have been going ...
August 12, 2009
Tweet Believe it or not, alot of people are going solo when it comes to vacationing, especially internationally. The recession, coupled with friends flaking out at the last minute, has created a slew of singles darting off to uncharted waters in hopes of having a good time.It’s not that people enjoy the solitude, although some ...
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June 2, 2009
Tweet Tired: Drained of strength and energy : fatigued often to the point of exhaustion 2 : obviously worn by hard use. Go into your average barbershop and notice the looks: worn out, lackadaisical, even ill-looking. Some of them look like they’ve been in car wrecks, and in alot of ways they have: emotional car ...
April 14, 2009
Tweet There is a great myth among American society that if a woman is full-grown, has a promising career and doesn’t have at least one crumb-snatcher walking around then something is wrong. The Bible even speaks shamefully of “the barren woman” who mourns her childless lot in life. But do you agree? Is there anything ...
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October 6, 2008
Tweet Black Hollywood actresses have money, style, bodies to kill for, everything except … men. Why? Is there a eligible man shortage in black Hollywood? Is there a smorgasbord of single females, too many to all be happily mated? The biggest names seem to have the emptiest nests when it comes to men? Of course, ...